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Comment on Time Heals No Wounds by Shirley

Shirley — Thu, 06 Oct 2011 00:16:00 +0000

I LOVED THIS!

Comment on Time Heals No Wounds by Cheila Esquilin

Cheila Esquilin — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 20:01:00 +0000

Aww, love you too girl! Thanks, it was kind of awkward for me, since I usually don't get too personal, but this site is suppose to be "unalloyed, Unadulterated, undiluted" right?

You are right about people not knowing what to say at the moment. I understand that know that I've grown, but when I was ten, I use to get pissed off, and think people were being condescending, haha.

"Time doesn't heal our wounds, because the serious deep wounds will
always leave their mark on us. It does, however, give us perspective and
distance and one hell of a scar to remind us in the good times and the
bad. " SO TRUE!!

Comment on Time Heals No Wounds by Cheila Esquilin

Cheila Esquilin — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 19:54:00 +0000

Well I'm glad you found me! I haven't written in a while but hopefully I'll start posting often. Thank you for the compliment.

Comment on Time Heals No Wounds by Elisa Doucette

Elisa Doucette — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 14:50:00 +0000

First of all, I love you dear. And thank you for writing such a beautifully open and honest post.

Secondly, I think people offer cliched awkward advice because they don't know what else to say. And they try to offer something that will create at least *some* comfort (at least in their minds). People really DO want to ease the suffering of the fellow human friends. Most just don't know how.

Thirdly, I don't think time heals wounds. Just think of a serious gouge to your arm (you know, if you are a klutz like me and run into shit all the time!) Time closes over the gaping hole to your skin, but the scar is still there. The skin around it is tougher but somehow more vulnerable. The pain and suffering you endured to leave a mark will never magically disappear, you will still remember it at the most inopportune moments and re-live it when you are thinking about something completely different.

Time doesn't heal our wounds, because the serious deep wounds will always leave their mark on us. It does, however, give us perspective and distance and one hell of a scar to remind us in the good times and the bad.

Comment on Time Heals No Wounds by Dorkness

Dorkness — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 02:45:00 +0000

I stumbled across your blog through a friend that follows you on twitter. Might I say: THANK GOD I DID! Such a heartwarming post. I am left without words to decribe how marvalous you expressed yourself. Thank you for writing this piece. I will definetly stick around.

Comment on Time Heals No Wounds by Erica

Erica — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 02:38:13 +0000

Comment on Foolish by Ashely

Ashely — Tue, 12 Apr 2011 18:43:39 +0000

Great post Chukee,

It's funny how we are in a constant war between our heart and brain. Seems to me you are not that type of person who wears their heart on their sleeve. I'm the same way. But sometimes you just got to go with how you feel, even though it might get you in trouble at times, like your heart did.

Deep post. I'm glad you are writing again. I've missed it.

Comment on These Little Wonders by Elisa

Elisa — Thu, 24 Feb 2011 18:56:28 +0000

I believe our minds are capable of so much more than we think they are. Keep thinking and theorizing and dreaming...it totally messes with the status quo of society!

Comment on A Sweet November by Cheila Esquilin

Cheila Esquilin — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 23:07:00 +0000

You are right. It applies to any month, especially the cold, winter days.

Comment on A Sweet November by Cheila Esquilin

Cheila Esquilin — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 23:05:00 +0000

Omg! How are you? I'm so happy for you! We need to catch up